LiPo is MUCH easier to manage well than NimH.
Energy densities for top capacity NimH are about the same as LiPo nowadays.
(That was written in 2012. In 2021 LiPo energy densities are now typically somewhat higher).
NimH is a relatively hard battery chemistry to manage well. Charging at low rates is not usually advised and negative voltage deflection under charge or temperature rise are the usual end-of-charge detection methods. In contrast, LiPo is charged at constant-current until a set voltage is reached and then at constant-voltage until current falls to a preset level. LiPo will accept any lower-than-maximum rate of charge if desired, and can be recharged from any state-of-charge with no special conditions. (Handling very low voltage cells is slightly more complex, but all sensible charger ICs handle this - and very low voltage should never be allowed to happen.)
The ONLY reason I would think of using NimH in your context is safety - and if it was my son, I'd consider that I could make LiPo safe enough for him to use. LiPo can "melt down" very enthusiastically with flame, BUT it is extremely rare in practice and taking quite usual precautions should allow a safe result.
I would have no personal concerns over LiPo safety in a competently engineered system.
HOWEVER, NEVER use unprotected LiPo cells if you care about safety. The in-battery protection IC DOES NOT serve the same roles as the charger ICs do. The in-battery ones are just to stop people from doing stupidly dangerous things to the battery. That said, IF your charger is properly implemented, and if there is no chance of short or fire potential then most of the protection circuitry is not needed. I say "most" because, if there is e.g. a catastrophic equipment failure and e.g. a short circuit occurs, the in-cell circuitry will usually open-circuit the cell and prevent a fire.
Using the proper charger ICs should allow a very safe and reliable charger to be implemented.
You do not need gas gauging per se - just low voltage cut-out. If you can stop operation at say 3V / cell, that should be enough.
Protected cells should not cost vastly more. If they do, it MAY indicate that the cheap ones are bad ones. You can get utter junk LiIon batteries (and you'd hope to get a price advantage when buying junk :-) - if you were silly enough to buy them. There are enough reputable brand cells around that buying them probably does not cost vastly more. Ensuring that the cells are genuine is another matter. As a working position I suggest you start by assuming that anything bought from a low cost Chinese supplier is fake or out of spec and THEN try and prove otherwise. (NB: Racism? - definitely not!. It's based on experience - many visits to China and time in factories, etc. China is very, very large and has a vast range of sellers in a very competitive market place. In a casual sale, expect a certain portion of the sellers to be 'dodgy' at best.)
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I was going to come back and mention LiFePO4 - AndreKr beat me to it.
Compared to LiPo, LiFePO4 (Lithium Ferro Phosphate) are safer, longer life and have lower energy density. You can buy RCR123A LiFePO4 batteries with 450 mAh x 3.2V capacity. (Some claim up to about 700 mAh but are suspect.) Tenergy LiFePO4 RC123A are widely advertised on ebay and should be good. Tenergy are AFAIK a "rebadger" BUT seem to sell good product. LiFePO4 MUST be charged properly, but are as easy as LiPo to manage. A very simple charger can be built using a constant-current regulator followed by a 3.6V constant-voltage regulator. This setup charges at constant current until Vlimit is reached, and then at constant V. Setting to 3.5V is better.
Here is a randomly found seller of Tenergy LiFePO4 RCR123A batteries. They also sell chargers.
NOTE:
Do NOT use Lithium Ion RC123 (3.6V nominal).
Do not use 3.0V Lithium Primary RC123.
The terms RC123, RC123A, RCR123, RCR123A etc are used somewhat interchangeably by sellers. Just be sure of what you are getting.
I suspect that you are connecting Aref to the regulator output.
While you have sufficient voltage, and the regulator provides the correct (i.e. expected) voltage, you get correct readings.
When the battery falls below a limit, the output at the regulator falls, and will always be the input V minus its drop. The ADC will always read the same voltage (since regulator output = Aref = Battery - Reg. Drop), which happens to be a higher ADC value than before this condition.
You need a better reference voltage at Aref. You can, for example, use a Zener with a drop less than 2.8V, and a voltage divider to feed the ADC.
Update: (Regarding your comment) You should add a better reference voltage to Aref. Since you observe the problem it is a good practice to fix it. Your arduino the way it works now cannot tell whether the battery is dead or fully charged, which is not a good idea.
Another point is that you risk damaging your arduino, as you are bringing Aref above Vcc. There is limit for this (I can't remember, check datasheet).
Finally is is also a bad practice to rely on something you observed (and it is not a guaranteed specification), since it may soon behave differently. Save yourself from headaches, and design following good practices.
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4.4 V and 3.7 V here refer to different characteristics.
3.7 V is the nominal voltage (average voltage during a complete discharge) of a "traditional" LiCoO 2 -based lithium ion cell. Such a cell typically has a minimum voltage around 3.0 V, a maximum voltage around 4.2 V and a nominal voltage between 3.6 and 3.7 V.
4.4 V refers to the maximum voltage of cells with an improved anode that can endure higher voltages. These cells tend to have a similar minimum voltage, but the maximum voltage is between 4.35 V and 4.4 V. Since they can be charged further, the nominal voltage is also increased to around 3.8 V. This improvement is achieved with silicon and graphene -containing additives
In the radio control world these are explicitly marketed as "LiHV" etc, but they are increasingly common in all sorts of products like mobile phones.
There are several research papers on the subject, e.g. http://m.jes.ecsdl.org/content/164/1/A6075.abstract