Electronic – Capacitive touch screen sensitivity question

I haven't actually done this, but it seems the problem is the objects you are using are too small and don't have enough ambient capacitance. A human touching something adds capacitive coupling to the environment. Think of the size and surface area difference between a carrot and a carrot+human.

You should be able to use something conductive that is covered by a thin insulating layer, then connect the conducive part to a conductive plate under the iPhone or to ground. In this case "conductive" only needs to be not a good insulator. As you found, even something like a carrot is conductive enough. Try connecting a ground clip to the other end of the carrot, or connect it to the chassis of your machine.

The reason the stylus worked even through layers of wool is related to the very nature of capacitance: It is not about conduction (except at the electrodes themselves), it is about the insulation between the plates: Wool is about as good a dielectric as dry air, if it is not woven with some metallic fiber.

The way capacitive touch screens typically work is that they sense the change in capacitance that occurs when an earthed body - essentially any large conducting body, such as a human - comes close(r) to the surface electrode. By using a metallic stylus, that "earthed body" is being brought closer, with merely the wool in between.

This capacitance change can be measured in a number of ways. A common approach is to inject a high frequency signal between the sensing electrode and the device's own ground plane, with air (or glass, or some other material) as a dielectric between these two "electrodes". Any other conductor coming into proximity changes the dielectric (i.e. insulation) pattern, thus changing the capacitance, and thereby the pattern of load shown by the capacitor across the native capacitance.