Your calculation of the impedance seen by the source is correct.
Clearly, there is a 'special' (angular) frequency
$$\omega_0 = \frac{1}{\sqrt{LC}}$$
where there is a pole in the impedance - the impedance goes to infinity.
Now, let's look at the dual of the circuit given:
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For the dual circuit, the impedance seen by the source is
$$Z = R||(j\omega L + \frac{1}{j \omega C}) = R \frac{1 - \omega^2LC}{1 - \omega^2LC + j\omega RC} $$
and now we have a zero at \$\omega_0\$ - the impedance goes to zero.
In both of these cases, the pole or zero is on the \$j \omega\$ axis. Generally, they are not.
so how do you find the resonance in general?
In this context (RLC), the resonance frequency is the frequency where the impedance of the inductor and capacitor are equal in magnitude and opposite in sign.
Update to address comment and question edit.
From the Wikipedia article "RLC circuit", "Natural frequency" section:
The resonance frequency is defined in terms of the impedance presented
to a driving source. It is still possible for the circuit to carry on
oscillating (for a time) after the driving source has been removed or
it is subjected to a step in voltage (including a step down to zero).
This is similar to the way that a tuning fork will carry on ringing
after it has been struck, and the effect is often called ringing. This
effect is the peak natural resonance frequency of the circuit and in
general is not exactly the same as the driven resonance frequency,
although the two will usually be quite close to each other. Various
terms are used by different authors to distinguish the two, but
resonance frequency unqualified usually means the driven resonance
frequency. The driven frequency may be called the undamped resonance
frequency or undamped natural frequency and the peak frequency may be
called the damped resonance frequency or the damped natural frequency.
The reason for this terminology is that the driven resonance frequency
in a series or parallel resonant circuit has the value1
$$\omega_0 = \frac {1}{\sqrt {LC}}$$
This is exactly the same as the resonance frequency of an LC circuit,
that is, one with no resistor present, that is, it is the same as a
circuit in which there is no damping, hence undamped resonance
frequency. The peak resonance frequency, on the other hand, depends on
the value of the resistor and is described as the damped resonance
frequency. A highly damped circuit will fail to resonate at all when
not driven. A circuit with a value of resistor that causes it to be
just on the edge of ringing is called critically damped. Either side
of critically damped are described as underdamped (ringing happens)
and overdamped (ringing is suppressed).
Circuits with topologies more complex than straightforward series or
parallel (some examples described later in the article) have a driven
resonance frequency that deviates from \$\omega_0 = \frac
{1}{\sqrt {LC}}\$ and for those the undamped resonance frequency, damped
resonance frequency and driven resonance frequency can all be
different.
See the "Other configurations" section for your 2nd circuit.
In summary, the frequencies at which the impedance is real, at which the impedance is stationary (max or min), and at which the reactances of the L & C are equal can be the same or different and each is some type of resonance frequency.
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I'm assuming here you mean a series connection of a resistor and inductor where that series pair is in parallel with a capacitor. The impedance of that circuit can be found to be: -
$$\dfrac{\frac{1}{LC}\cdot\left(R + j\omega L\right)}{\frac{1}{LC} - \omega^2 + j\omega \cdot\frac{R}{L}}$$
Note the \$\frac{1}{LC}\$ terms.
The square root of that term (in these particular types of 2nd order circuits) has a special name. It is called the natural resonant frequency (or pole frequency) and is given the symbol \$\omega_N\$ (or \$\omega_0\$).
Hence, \$\omega_N^2=\frac{1}{LC}\$
That's all it means when we talk about \$\frac{1}{\sqrt{LC}}\$. We find it commonly occurring in these types of equations and, it has enough relevance to be given a meaningful name.
For differing configurations of R, C and L, it can have different connotations but, nevertheless, we still link the name directly with \$\frac{1}{\sqrt{LC}}\$.
In a particular circuit, if we are interested in "other things" (such as maximum impedance or, the frequency at which the impedance is purely resistive) then we have to be specific about what we are talking about. Therefore, it's naïve to talk about a term such as "resonant frequency" with no further definition of what we actually mean.
We shouldn't attach a specific meaning to the term "resonance frequency" (or resonant frequency). However, the term "natural resonant frequency" (aka pole frequency) is defined as \$\frac{1}{\sqrt{LC}}\$.