I'm going to start with conclusions and then follow up with some reasoning. Hopefully will be helpful.
- 6.4V will be really marginal \$V_{\text{GS}}\$ for this FET (IRF1405Z). Since the Miller Plateau (Fig 6) occurs at about that voltage, it may not switch fully at these currents. If you can't get about 10V to drive the FET, then you should find a low \$V_{\text{th}}\$ FET to use instead.
- A direct coupled gate drive should be used instead of and AC coupled drive. The application doesn't seem to need an AC drive. And an AC drive will result in lower \$V_{\text{GS}}\$ than even 6.4V.
- There is a big difference between values needed for passive pull down \$R_{\text{GS}}\$ during the slow system start-up dV/dt, and total gate circuit resistance \$R_g\$ for switching operation. \$R_{\text{GS}}\$ can be very high value, like 10KOhms to 100KOhms for the slow (usually milli-sec) start up dV/dt. Total gate resistance \$R_g\$ will typically need to be less than ~200 Ohms for high dV/dt switching. For more about this you should look at this answer which I think explains it all (Yes, I'm biased).
- Because of the voltages involved in this case, only 6.4V, dV/dt isn't really an issue here. If there is really only 6.4V \$V_{\text{ds}}\$, then it won't be possible for dV/dt to drive \$V_{\text{gs}}\$ up to \$V_{\text{th}}\$ of the IRF1405Z.
AC Coupled Gate Drives -- What are they good for?
The only reason to use a capacitively coupled gate drive is if for some reason a negative voltage is needed on the FET gate when the FET is turned off. A problem with the AC drive is that an amount of positive gate voltage is always lost from the input drive levels, and it will be a variable amount depending on the duty cycle of the drive waveform or the clamping voltage.
In this case where the clamp circuit has been removed the peak \$V_{\text{GS}}\$ is a function of duty cycle (DC) as well as source value. The drive signal on the FET side of the coupling capacitor (\$C_c\$) will be normalized to the average value by the passive pull down \$R_{\text{GS}}\$ and would be equal to \$\text{(1-DC)} V_{\text{DRV}}\$. For example with 6.4V \$V_{\text{DRV}}\$, if the switch duty cycle is 50% then the high state \$V_{\text{GS}}\$ would be 3.2V. If duty cycle were 20% the high state \$V_{\text{GS}}\$ would be 5.1V.
Looking at Figure 1 of the IRF1405Z datasheet, \$V_{\text{GS}}\$ of 5.1V results in max drain current of 40 Amps, or not fully on. This would cause the FETs to over dissipate and burn out. With the high currents that will be switched, you can't afford to have low gate voltages for any reason.
dV/dt
The IRF1405Z has 12nH of package inductance in the drain and source connections, and a \$C_{\text{oss}}\$ of ~1000pF at 12V \$V_{\text{ds}}\$. That should limit the \$V_{\text{ds}}\$ rise time for the die to about 10 nsec. Figuring a high Q resonant response for the LC and steady state off voltage for \$V_{\text{ds}}\$ of 6.4V, \$V_{\text{ds}}\$ at the die could ring to 12.8V. That's a dV/dt of about 1V/nsec. Using the equation, from the answer cited earlier, for \$V_{\text{gs}}\$ under dV/dt:
\$V_{\text{gs}}\$ = \$C_{\text{gd}} V_{\text{dsSlp}} R_g \left(1-e^{-\frac{t}{R_g \left(C_{\text{gd}}+C_{\text{gs}}\right)}}\right)\$
And putting in values for IRF1405Z:
\$V_{\text{gs}}\$ = \$\text{(500pF)} \text{(12V/10nsec)} \text{Rg } \left(1-e^{-\frac{\text{10 nsec}}{\text{(500pF + 4500pF)} \text{Rg}}}\right)\$
It is possible to see that any value for \$R_g\$ is going to leave \$V_{\text{gs}}\$ less than about 1V. So, it looks like dV/dt isn't going to be an issue. (Never thought I'd say that!)
The problem in your design isn't the output transistors and neither will this be solved by using darlingtons - in fact the problem will become worse with darlingtons. Look at the spec of the NE5534 and read the section about maximum output voltage swing.
On page 5 it tells you that the max swing might be as low as 24V on a +/-15 volts supply i.e. a 30V supply only guarantees an unclipped output swing of 24 volts p-p - that means the internal transistors in the device "lose" 3 V top and bottom. This doesn't magically improve on a lower supply and you should expect, on a 9V supply, to generate a maximum output swing of 3 volts peak to peak.
OK, if you used the typical spec of the NE5534 this might rise to 5 volts p-p.
This is then compounded by the push pull stage - it's an emitter follower push pull stage and it's output will "lose" between 0.6volts and 1 volts per transistor depending on your load.
This leaves you with a crappy 1volt to 3.8 volts p-p being fed to your headphones before clipping takes place. If you use darlingtons, they "lose" double what a regular transistor loses so this will be even worse.
Recommendation - use a rail-to-rail output op-amp. There are plenty around these days and they'll probably only drop about 100mV per rail.
Best Answer
RF transistors are operated in their linear mode (for analog signals, going into saturation or full cut off will 'slow them down' dramatically), whereas the transistors you refer to are operating as a switch (either fully saturated or fully cut off, they will have an extremely low on-resistance and a high off-resistance). Entirely different modes of operation.
RF transistors can be extremely sensitive to static discharge.