Your question is difficult to answer. First, because you've not provided a wiring diagram (schematic), but also because it's unclear what exactly the system is supposed to do. But that's redundant: A schematic is a way for one person to communicate clearly to another how a collection of parts are interconnected, and it becomes much easier to discuss.
I'm going to assume you have four lights, four switches, one fuse, and one battery; and that you want each switch to control one light each.
I drew up a schematic:
I wanted to show that drawing up a quick little schematic can be quick, and cleanly show how things are connected.
However, I've built many a device which has a fairly straightforward schematic, but in real life has physical wires coming together in all sorts of inconvenient enclosures and makes it much more difficult to actually put together.
For example, I imagine you have 2-conductor cord running from the switch box to the bulbs, which means that the common grounds, shown in the schematic at far right, are actually coming back into the switch box and need to be connected together. One for each bulb plus one from the battery means five wires in total.
To answer your question about soldering this, yes you can certainly solder these together. You'll want a high wattage iron. If this were my project, I'd use the 100 watt soldering gun that I usually do for such wire joins:
Strip a little more off the ends of the wires than you might when joining just 2 or 3 wires (say 2-3 cm).
Twist them together so that each wire has good contact with the others.
Put a small amount of solder on the tip so that heat can transfer to the copper wire more easily. Hold the soldering iron/gun to the copper for a number of seconds, so that heat transfers into the mass. (And don't hold the wires too close to the end as heat will conduct up the wire.)
Apply more solder and start moving parallel to the wire so that solder flows evenly. Turn the group of wires also to ensure you get each conductor and all sides.
Trim excess length.
When done, apply some heat-shrink tubing or electrical tape. Here, I used two sizes: one to hold the group together and another to insulate the exposed copper. I "crimp" the open ends of heat shrink tubing with pliers while it is still hot to close any gaps.
And this is the final product. It's not "pretty" but it's relatively space-saving and works reliably:
You might also just want to use a "wire nut" or a twist-on wire connector, which is common and cheap:
Another way to connect multiple wires together is by using something called a distribution strip or bus bar:
Using a wire nut or bus bar, you can avoid having to solder altogether. With a bus bar, you have to be careful to not allow loose wires to come into contact with it.
If you have questions about distance or whether the wire gauge you are using is sufficient for the current, you should ask those as separate, specific questions.
Good luck on your project.
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A first observation shows that your switch seems to be a through hole switch, but the switch you are replacing is surface mount.
As others have said, don't "guess" the pinout - consult the datasheet. If you don't have one (as can happen if you have the switches from a small electronics store, or if you purchase them from a HAM-swap meet or from surplus sales), you should use a multimeter to confirm the pinout. The way you can do this is to just probe the pins with in continuity test mode on your meter, and then press the switch. Sometimes the pins will be shorted no matter if the switch is depressed or not.
Once you figured that out, you do the same with the switches you try to replace. Ofcourse, if they are broken, they might not make contact, which can make it a bit harder. If this is the case, you can try looking at the PCB to see if only two pins are connected to any traces. If so, this will be the switch contacts.