As in, you choose what you want the nodes to function as then the software fills in an optimized logic design for you? seems like it would be simple enough. perhaps only fill in 70% or so and you do the rest?
Electronic – Is there software for automating logic design
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LTSpice (http://www.linear.com/designtools/software/) will easily do all that and more besides. You can build up the circuit, define your voltage sources and then measure power in all the components, and power being used by the voltage source. What you're after though is very basic with regards to analysis, so basically any Spice software will handle this. LTSpice is free, as is Tina, and many others. Certainly LTSpice has a great community around it, which sounds like it'll be useful (have a look at the LTSpice users group)
Also, if you want to find overall resistance, then you can find this from the voltage supplied and the overall current draw. For simple DC stuff you can take the values from Spice and bung them into a calculator, or you can do math with sources in LTSpice to be able to plot the resistance out over time for more complex AC analysis
You don't provide a schematic, so the best I can do is to show you ONE example of how to incorporate a latch.
simulate this circuit – Schematic created using CircuitLab
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They're called FPGA Design tools. See Xilinx.com, lattice.com, altera.com. Simple in concept. Prepare to devote your life for the next 6 months to learn how to use them.