Blind and buried vias add a lot to the cost of a multi-layer board, and are only used on high-density, high-performance systems. The increase in cost is because the layers have to be drilled separately, assembled, and then the holes are plated. Blind vias are sometimes back-drilled (the unwanted plating is removed with a slightly larger drill from the back) which reduces the cost, as the layers are stacked before drilling.
You will hate yourself if you do stack up number two ;) Maybe that's harsh but it's a going to be a PITA reworking a board with all internal signals. Don't be afraid of vias either.
Let's address some of your questions:
1.Signal layers are adjacent to ground planes.
Stop thinking about ground planes, and think more about reference planes. A signal running over a reference plane, whose voltage happens to be at VCC will still return over that reference plane. So the argument that somehow having your signal run over GND and not VCC is better is basically invalid.
2.Signal layers are tightly coupled (close) to their adjacent planes.
See number one I think the misunderstanding about only GND planes offering a return path leads to this misconception. What you want to do is keep your signals close to their reference planes, and at a constant correct impedance...
3.The ground planes can act as shields for the inner signal layers. (I think this requires stitching ??)
Yeah you could try to make a cage like this I guess, for your board you'll get better results keeping your trace to plane height as low as possible.
4.Multiple ground planes lower the ground (reference plane) impedance of the board and reduce the common-mode radiation. (don't really understand this one)
I think you've taken this to mean the more gnd planes I have the better, which is not really the case. This sounds like a broken rule of thumb to me.
My recommendation for your board based only on what you've told me is to do the following:
Signal Layer
(thin maybe 4-5mil FR4)
GND
(main FR-4 thickness, maybe 52 mil more or less depending on your final thickness)
VCC
(thin maybe 4-5mil FR4)
Signal Layer
Make sure you decouple properly.
Then if you really want to get into this go to amazon and buy either Dr Johnson's Highspeed digital design a handbook of black magic, or maybe Eric Bogatin's Signal and Power integrity Simplified. Read it love, live it :) Their websites have great information as well.
Good Luck!
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I think you misunderstood the through-hole via.
Regardless of the number of layers, a through-hole via can have an electrical connection to all of the inner layers thanks to its full (not partial) inner conductive plating.
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Although the EDA you are using will isolate the via from the other inner plane(s) if the rules are set properly, you should still be careful about what the via is connected to on the other side (e.g. tracks or pads).
As for the buried and blind vias, these require multiple drilling and plating processes. But for the through-hole vias, the manufacturer stacks all the materials and layers, aligns them together, and drills only once. So there's only one drilling and plating process.