Magento – Delete order by using order id and MySQL query

This is more of a hack. Warning: you could accidentally delete items if you're not careful.

The getAllItems method filters items out of the item collection and returns it. In order to filter items out of the getAllItems array you simply need to mark the desired items in the collection as deleted:

foreach($order->getAllItems() as $item) {
    $item->isDeleted(true);
}

Subsequent calls to getAllItems will return items not marked as deleted.

Now, where things get hairy is that if you call save on that item, it will delete it. This is dangerous.

So, what I suggest instead, is that you build your own collection with only the data that you know that you want. For instance:

$collection = new Varien_Data_Collection();

And then populate it:

foreach($order->getAllItems() as $item) {
    //some condition
    $collection->addItem($item);
}

Now your new collection only contains the data that you want, and you can hand that around.

you can remove the product with sku. check this answer add this function into app\code\local\AR\Orderstatus\controllers\Adminhtml\IndexController.php

public function deleteproductAction()
{
    $order_id = $this->getRequest()->getParam('order_id');
    $product_id = $this->getRequest()->getParam('product_id');

     $_order = Mage::getModel('sales/order')->load($order_id);
        $items = $_order->getAllItems();
        foreach ($items as $item){
        $base_grand_total = $_order->getBaseGrandTotal();

        $base_subtotal = $_order->getBaseSubtotal();
        $base_tva = $_order->getBaseTaxAmount();

        $grand_total = $_order->getGrandTotal();

        $subtotal = $_order->getSubtotal();
        $tva = $_order->getTaxAmount();


        $base_subtotal_incl_tax = $_order->getBaseSubtotalInclTax();

        $subtotal_incl_tax = $_order->getSubtotalInclTax();

        $total_item_count = $_order->getTotalItemCount();



        if($item->getProductId()==$product_id){
            $item_price = $item->getPrice();
            $item_tva = $item->getTaxAmount();
            $item->delete();
            $_order->setBaseGrandTotal($base_grand_total-$item_price-$item_tva);

            $_order->setBaseSubtotal($base_subtotal-$item_price);

            $_order->setBaseTaxAmount($base_tva-$item_tva);

            $_order->setGrandTotal($grand_total-$item_price-$item_tva);

            $_order->setSubtotal($subtotal-$item_price);

            $_order->setTaxAmount($tva-$item_tva);


            $_order->setBaseSubtotalInclTax($base_subtotal_incl_tax-$item_price);

            $_order->setSubtotalInclTax($subtotal_incl_tax-$item_price);

            $_order->setTotalItemCount(count($items)-1);

            $_order->save(); 
        }

        }
Mage::getSingleton('adminhtml/session')
                           ->addSuccess('Order Updated Successfully');
        $this->_redirect('adminhtml/sales_order/view', array('order_id' => $_order->getId()));
    }