Edit 2:
As you mentioned...
ip route 10.1.0.0 255.255.0.0 iface0
Forces the Brocade to proxy-arp for every destination in 10.1.0.0/16 as if it was directly connected to iface0.
I can't respond about Brocade's ARP cache implementation, but I would simply point out the easy solution to your problem... configure your route differently:
ip route 10.1.0.0 255.255.0.0 CiscoNextHopIP
By doing this, you prevent the Brocade from ARP-ing for all of 10.1.0.0/16 (note, you might need to renumber the link between R1 and R2 to be outside 10.1.0.0/16, depending on Brocade's implementation of things).
Original answer:
I expect that in most, or even all, implementations, there is a hard limit on the capacity of the ARP table.
Cisco IOS CPU routers are only limited by the amount of DRAM in the router, but that is typically not going to be a limiting factor. Some switches (like Catalyst 6500) have a hard limitation on the adjacency table (which is correlated to the ARP table); Sup2T has 1 Million adjacencies.
So, what happens when the ARP cache is full and a packet is offered with a destination (or next-hop) that isn't cached?
Cisco IOS CPU routers don't run out of space in the ARP table, because those ARPs are stored in DRAM. Let's assume you're talking about Sup2T. Think of it like this, suppose you had a Cat6500 + Sup2T and you configured all Vlans possible, technically that is
4094 total Vlans - Vlan1002 - Vlan1003 - Vlan1004 - Vlan1005 = 4090 Vlans
Assume you make each Vlan a /24 (so that's 252 possible ARPs), and you pack every Vlan full... that is 1 Million ARP entries.
4094 * 252 = 1,030,680 ARP Entries
Every one of those ARPs would consume a certain amount of memory in the ARP table itself, plus the IOS adjacency table. I dont know what it is, but let's say the total ARP overhead is 10 Bytes...
That means you have now consumed 10MB for ARP overhead; it still isn't very much space... if you were that low on memory, you would see something like %SYS-2-MALLOCFAIL.
With that many ARPs and a four hour ARP timeout, you would have to service almost 70 ARPs per second on average; it's more likely that the maintenance on 1 million ARP entries would drain the CPU of the router (potentially CPUHOG messages).
At this point, you could start bouncing routing protocol adjacencies and have IPs that are just unreachable because the router CPU was too busy to ARP for the IP.
I am assuming you're using "bridge-mode" for networking (your internal, virtual adapter is bridged to your host's physical adapter).
In any case (unless you explicitlly manually set them to the same address, which causes a lot of other problems), your guest (WinXP) machine will have a different MAC address than your host (CentOS). Due to bridge-mode, your host acts as an ethernet switch, and forwards packets to the guest.
So when an ARP broadcast comes, your host gets the packet and also forwards it to your guest machine. When packets for your host come, they are processed by your host's network stack. When packets for your guest come, the host forwards them to your guest, which then processes them as needed.
Best Answer
Broadcasts interrupt every host on the broadcast domain, which is not a good thing. ARP must broadcast in order to find the MAC address, but, after that, the MAC address gets cached in an ARP table (it eventually times out). Caching the MAC address prevents excessive broadcasts from ARP - only the first packet needs to ARP (broadcast), and the rest of the stream can use the ARP cache.