mount –bind – How to Do ‘mount –bind’ in /etc/fstab

You need to change the permissions of the mounted filesystem, not of the mount point when the filesystem is not mounted. So mount /var/lib/mysql then chown mysql.mysql /var/lib/mysql. This will change the permissions of the root of the MySQL DB filesystem.

The basic idea is that the filesystem holding the DB needs to be changed, not the mount point, unless its path has some issues, e.g. lib can only be read by root.

No, there isn't (I just checked 1 hour ago). You can comment the bind-address in my.cnf:

Note: « 1 hour ago » is now more than 10 years ago.

#skip-networking
#bind-address                   = 127.0.0.1

If you want only 2 IPs, you will then have to use a firewall.

For MySql version 8.0.13 and above, you can specify a list of comma-separated IP addresses.

bind-address = 10.0.0.1,10.0.1.1,10.0.2.1

Relevant MySql documentation.

Remember to restart your MySQL instance after changing the config file.