I'm building php from source..
just wondering which mysql path do I specify for –with-mysql= and –with-mysqli because whereis mysql returns:

whereis mysql

mysql: /usr/bin/mysql /usr/lib/mysql /usr/share/mysql /usr/share/man/man1/mysql.1.gz

Also, I installed httpd via yum (RHEL5) so I'm wondering what path to use for –with-apxs2=

whereis httpd

httpd: /usr/sbin/httpd.event /usr/sbin/httpd /usr/sbin/httpd.worker /etc/httpd /usr/lib/httpd /usr/share/man/man8/httpd.8.gz

Thanks for any replies!