I hope this isn't too blunt, but the task you are undertaking here is extremely difficult, and the odds of you getting it right are slim. Security flaws are most of the time caused by mistakes in implementation, not in the underlying technologies. In order to make a system like the one you've described secure, you have to use the correct tools and the correct methodology and account for all of the edge cases or the security of the entire system will be compromised.
That's not really a helpful answer though, is it? When you are building a system like you are building the question you should be asking shouldn't be "How do I do this?" It should instead be "What is the way I can do this that relies the least on myself?" The answer to that question is to use tried and tested systems wherever possible, and to roll your own solutions only as a last resort.
To answer your first point about encryption, it doesn't make sense to worry too much about securing a key in memory of the server. If an attacker has enough access to a machine to read your keys out of memory, you are totally and completely hosed and any solutions that you have coded up aren't going to help much any way. In other words, favor securing data at rest and data that is moving over the internet, since that is where most attacks are going to occur.
As far as storing the data goes, I don't see any reason why asymmetric crypto needs to be involved here. I would use something like PBKDF2 to derive a key directly from the user's password, then encrypt the data and store the encrypted blob in a database. I would recommend a database over a flat file because managing a folder full of flat files is tedious at the best of times. Databases may not show any solid benifits in speed or security over flat files, but they come with many other features such as pooled connections and they also make backing up data much easier than flat files. Use the simplest system you can to minimize your attack surface, and use thoroughly tested open source tools whenever possible. If you can find a way to use GPG for the encryption and key derivation part of things, I would recommend it.
As far as transfer goes, I believe that you are thinking about things the wrong way. Don't do any encryption client side. Browser javascript is not suitable for cryptography, as explained in this article. So long as you make sure that you use TLS/SSL for all connections to your site, you shouldn't need to worry about transmitting data unencrypted. For an example of why it is hard to do client side encryption, do some googling about the security of MegaUpload's successor, MEGA.
Finally, I wouldn't trust any one dude you get an answer from on the internet, including myself. I would do a lot of research about this sort of thing before committing to a solution. Also, I might recommend asking this question over at the IT Security Stack Exchange.
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Somehow, I totally missed the fact that there are three parts to your system, the client (browser), the server (database), and the connector that imports data from the VisualFox Database. This actually makes the whole system a lot more complex, because there are essentially three parties that need to share a secret, instead of two. What I would recommend is not to encrypt the data based on the users password, but to instead encrypt it based on some server password. I'm having a little bit of trouble thinking of a good way to describe this process, so I'll give you an example workflow instead.
Server Side
- Admin starts server.
- During start up, server code asks for a password.
- Server uses PBKDF2 to derive a key which is stored only in memory.
- Server spawns a thread that will poll the VirtualFox Pro server every X (days/hours/minutes) for updated data.
- Server enters loop awaiting requests from browser clients.
Updating database
- Main Server's child thread requests an update of data from the Virtual Fox Pro server.
- VirtualFox Pro server dumps a report containing data for client's with modified entries.
- VirtualFox Pro server opens secure connection to main server (ssh, sftp, etc) and transmits zipped data.
- One by one, the main server uses the PBKDF2 derived key that is stored in memory to decrypt blobs stored in a database, update them with new data, reencrypt them, and store them back into the database. This process should all happen in-memory.
Browser client connects
- Main server receives https request from client.
- Main server uses some third party authentication framework to check clients credentials. This framework should use bcrypt to hash passwords and only store the hashes on the file system.
- If the authentication framework positively identifies a user, the main server will decrypt the user's blob using the PBKDF2 derived key in memory and send the data to the user.
- When the user's authentication cookie expires, the main server will stop using the PBKDF2 derived key to decrypt data, and will instead prompt the user to re-authenticate.
This model is more in line with how traditional websites work (which means that you can rely on third party, bug tested frameworks), but data is encrypted/decrypted in memory before touching the database. Ideally, you could use GPG or some other keystore for managing the encryption keys on the main server as well.
Best Answer
In general case, in order to keep track of users and for example to know which one is logged on, sessions are used. But sessions mean session IDs stored in cookies¹; it's just that if you need to remember N entries for a user, there is only one cookie involved, not N.
In your particular case, on the other hand, you care about protecting your website against illegitimate use (and avoid repetitive checks). It means that sessions are not appropriate: why a scrapper would ever send session cookie to you?² Instead:
Detect the IP address of the request before starting processing it,
If you have no information about the IP address:
Detect if it is a scrapper (like you currently do),
Store the result in cache (or in database, or both),
Load the result from cache.
Respond according to the result. If it's a scrapper, send a "please stop scrapping" page; if it is a legitimate user, process the page and send the ordinary response.
¹ PHP is also able to pass session ID in URIs. It's ugly and must be used only when you can't do anything else.
² Remember, legitimate users may have their cookies disabled for some reason. The fact that a client doesn't send the cookies to you doesn't automatically mean it's an automated process.