C++ – Overriding a default option(…) value in CMake from a parent CMakeLists.txt

I am trying to include several third-party libraries in my source tree with minimal changes to their build system for ease of upgrading. They all use CMake, as do I, so in my own CMakeLists.txt I can use add_subdirectory(extern/foo) for libfoo.

But the foo CMakeLists.txt compiles a test harness, builds documentation, a shared library which I don't need, and so on. The libfoo authors had the foresight to control these via options – option(FOO_BUILD_SHARED "Build libfoo shared library" ON) for example – which means I can set them via the CMake command line. But I would like to make that off by default and overridable via the command line.

I have tried doing set(FOO_BUILD_SHARED OFF) before add_subdirectory(extern/foo). That has the effect of not trying to build the shared library during the second and subsequent build attempts, but not during the first one, which is the one I really need to speed up.

Is this possible, or do I need to maintain forked CMakeLists.txt for these projects?