C++ – pthreads: reader/writer locks, upgrading read lock to write lock

I'm using read/write locks on Linux and I've found that trying to upgrade a read locked object to a write lock deadlocks.

i.e.

// acquire the read lock in thread 1.
pthread_rwlock_rdlock( &lock );

// make a decision to upgrade the lock in threads 1.
pthread_rwlock_wrlock( &lock ); // this deadlocks as already hold read lock.

I've read the man page and it's quite specific.

The calling thread may deadlock if at
the time the call is made it holds the
read-write lock (whether a read or
write lock).

What is the best way to upgrade a read lock to a write lock in these circumstances.. I don't want to introduce a race on the variable I'm protecting.

Presumably I can create another mutex to encompass the releasing of the read lock and the acquiring of the write lock but then I don't really see the use of read/write locks. I might as well simply use a normal mutex.

Thx