Facebook – How to remove theself from Facebook chat group

There are some new options.

How do I edit my notifications for my groups?

To change the notification settings for a Group you’re a member of, go to the Group and click the "Edit Notifications" button on the top right corner of the page.

source: Facebook New Groups Design Help

Here is the current setup I have used.

On top of this on each post you make a comment on, you must click Unsubscribe so that you are not notified about it on Facebook every second.

This solved it for me. These are for new groups. I checked one of my old groups and it has not undergone this change. Any other tips feel free to comment.

You must have a new-style group. Only old-style open groups (which cannot be created any more) can be joined without approval.

Previously, open Groups were similar to Pages and anyone could join. They were so similar that a lot of people were confused as to which they should use, and they would often complain because they created the wrong kind and would want to switch (which is not possible). Facebook redesigned Groups in October 2010 to make them better for small groups of friends, with features such as group chat and new notification options. Any member can add new members from their own friends list, or others can request to join with group admin approval. Pages on the other hand are designed for large numbers of people, and for any case where you want anyone to be able to join without approval.

Although each group member can change their own settings, by default all group members are notified when there is any new content from any member in one of their new-style groups. This is very helpful for small groups of friends, however it does not really work if anyone can join. The reason is that spammers use scripts to create Facebook accounts and join old-style open groups and become fans of pages in order to post spam on the group or page wall. At least with a post on a Page, most people will not see it unless they explicitly visit the page, and hopefully a page admin will remove the spam and possibly ban or report the spammer by then. Also a page admin can set posts from others to be hidden by default, if they don't want to clean up spam. And pages and old-style groups do not have a group chat feature to worry about protecting from spammers.