How to find out if I have been removed from a friend’s Yahoo! Messenger’s contact list

You need to put a contact on your Ignore List first, otherwise they can still see you when you are online and send you a message, because your ID is still on their Messenger list. Here's what to do:

1. Right click on their icon
2. Scroll down to stealth settings
3. Change them to appear permanently offline.
4. Then click on messenger (top left on the messenger window)
5. Click preferences
6. Scroll down to ignore list
7. Click and in the next window add them to your ignore list
8. Click OK
9. Then go back
10. Right click their icon and delete.

Note: there is a limit of 100 names that you can put on permanent ignore.

Also try:

• http://nobuddy.zak.2ya.com/
• http://www.vizgin.com/remover.php

which "claim" to remove you from their list.

All of this is untested by me. Good luck!

Point your browser to this URL:

http://api2.my.yahoo.com/2.0/content/getsubs

That'll give you an OPML version of your RSS subscriptions.