The cat6a specifications are for 100m and 10Gb ethernet (so that's fine?)
I think what you're trying to say with this is that if 10G Ethernet can transmit 100 m over Cat6A cable, then it should be possible to transmit 3.2 Gb/s over 50 m with the same cable.
The difference between what it sounds like you want to do and how 10GbE does things is that the Xilinx serial IO, if I recall correctly, outputs a single 3.2 Gb/s serial data stream over a single pair of wires.
10GbE uses several tricks to get the maximum data rate through the longest copper cable.
First, they use all 4 pairs in the Cat6A cable to transmit the 10 Gb/s. That means that each pair is only transmitting 2.5 Gb/s.
Second, they use pre-emphasis encoding to maximize the usable bandwidth of the cable. Basically they enhance the high frequency portion of the transmitted signal. The transmitted signal then doesn't look like a clean data signal. But when its transmitted through the cable, the high-frequency portion is attenuated, and the received signal is closer to the ideal wave shape.
Third, they use error detecting and error correcting codes to allow error-free data transmission even when the cable degrades the signal enough to cause some errors in the raw bit stream.
Fourth, they use a 16-level pulse-amplitude modulation (PAM), instead of simple on-off coding, to send 4 bits of data for every symbol transmitted over the wire.
These last two methods are possible to improve the data rate due to the Shannon Theorem, which says that the maximum possible data transmission rate through a channel is determined both by the bandwidth of the channel and the signal-to-noise ratio in the channel.
I don't think any of this means that what you're proposing is utterly impossible. For example, the 2.5 Gb/s per pair data rate of 10 GbE actually becomes something like 3.125 Gb/s per pair when you include encoding overhead. But doing the PAM encoding to follow the 10GbE model is likely to require a specialized chip for both the transmitter and receiver, and some detailed design work to get it to work.
One possibility is, can you simply packetize this data up and actually send it over a 10 GbE link? That would allow you to use mostly commodity hardware to keep costs down, and also use a "proven" solution to reduce your risks. Some Xilinx FPGAs include a full Ethernet MAC that should enable this solution, but I don't know if its available at the price point you're trying to work at.
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On my system they are here:
C:\Xilinx\12.3\ISE_DS\ISE\ISEexamples
The ones you mentioned can be downloaded as zip files from that web page. You want the ISE In-Depth Tutorial and the associated zip files. They are included amongst those that should already be on your system in the ISEExamples directory.
I don't think that the hardware for that example is still available. If you get a Digilent Spartan 3 kit a similar alarm clock example can be downloaded from the Digilent web site.
The best place to get questions about Xilinx software answered are the Xilinx forums.