Php – Magento PHP Extension “gd” must be loaded problem

The first thing to be aware of is that you didn't just install two instances of apache, you actually used two different installation mechanisms - one by compiling, the other by using the resident dpkg (called via apt) mechanism.

Neither method is more (or less) valid than the other, and, one can't categorically state you have to use only one method; but you've already identified the first issue with using two different mechanisms - your package manager (dpkg) doesn't know anything about your hand-compiled installation.

The reason you ended up with a version of apache from the apt-get install php5, is that built into the php5 package is a number of dependencies. You can query the packaging database for the dependencies with dpkg-query:

# dpkg-query -W -f='${Package} ${Version}\t${Maintainer}\n${Depends}\n' php5

php5 5.2.4-2ubuntu5.6   Ubuntu Core Developers <ubuntu-develdiscuss@lists.ubuntu.com>
libapache2-mod-php5 (>= 5.2.4-2ubuntu5.6) | php5-cgi (>= 5.2.4-2ubuntu5.6), 
  php5-common (>= 5.2.4-2ubuntu5.6)

You'll see a link to libapache2-mod-php5, which in turn references the apache that was installed.

As to removal - apt-get remove apache2 will remove the version of apache2 installed by the package manager, but it will not touch (nor would you want it to) files that have been manually added - those will require your careful inspection and analysis of the system.

If you are lucky, the make file that did the install when you typed make install

also has a make remove

In the case of apache2/httpd - you don't have that luxury, but that's a fairly clean install, as installs go, so you should be able to identify the directory that you installed in, and an

rm -rf /usr/local/apache2 (or wherever you installed apache)

should remove most files placed onto your system.

If you don't have a clean install - you'll need to search for the files that were installed on your system.

One typical way of determining what has been added to your system after an installation done manually (works for everything, not just autoconfig installs) is to run the command:

find / -cmin -2 2>/dev/null | egrep -v '^(/proc|/sys)'

You can then use the output of that command to provide you with a list of files that should be considered for removal.

I realize this isn't a soup-nuts guide to removing what has been placed on your system, but the challenges you are experiencing are precisely why people work so hard to use package managers to manage their system (which, in addition to clean adding/removing of files, also provides a number of other useful benefits, such as binary-verification to see if anything has been modified)

All you need to do is:

sudo apt-get install php5-mcrypt php5-curl php5-gd

If you need to check what is installed php-wise you can:

dpkg --list | grep php

EDIT: Removed sudo in the command above as it's not needed with dpkg --list.