If you're looking for Rth, you do exactly as you said (remove RL such that there is an open-circuit between A and B, then shut V2 off and measure equivalent resistance from A to B).
First, remove the resistor and short V2. If you label nodes at this point, it will help you to redraw the circuit in a more typical fashion:
Convince yourself that that is true, and from there you should be golden :)
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Here's a clue - what can you say about Vx and Vy?